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Sunday, 5 January 2014
Could This Be Fashion Or …..? Check This Photo Out
cant seem to stand this alone please if you think you know what this is.
FASHION or ……………………?
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Saturday, 4 January 2014
Is This Denrele Edun's Girlfriend? (Photo)
The dude recently tweeted the photo he shared with his "boo", Zoe Fave.
The pretty lady, tweeted the photo at Denrele with the caption, "Craziest, funniest and realest Nicca @DENRELE_EDUN happy new year dear."
Denrele tweeted the photo back at her and replied: "My sexy Diva! HapiNewYear Boo".
Its not certain if its just one Denrele's pranks or whether he's ready to be in a serious relationship.
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My ex-husband slept with own daughter
It was a whirlwind romance when 48-year-old Bamidele Mustapha engaged and married his now 30-year-old ex-wife, Patience Wilfred, six years ago. One could never have imagined the explosive allegations going back and forth between them now.
The marriage between Wilfred, a woman from Akwa Ibom State and the Oyo State-born Mustapha was dissolved by a customary court in Lagos in July, 2013.
But peace has yet to reign between the two as the young woman spent more than one month languishing at the Kirikiri Female Prison, Lagos after she was remanded by a court.
She came back from her detention, only to approach the Lagos State Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation for redress as she alleged that Mustapha had bribed some police men at the Idimu Area Command to charge her to court on spurious allegations.
She said, "When my husband travelled to Malaysia in 2012, I was in charge of my two step-children. I also have two children for him and was pregnant at the time. His 28-year-old daughter, Titilayo, a girl he had with another woman when he was young, had previously left home but she came back to live with us at the time.
"One of my step-daughters sustained an injury one day and I instructed Titilayo to help use warm water to treat the leg. I had no idea that because of her hatred for the girl, she had made the water very hot. The girl's leg became affected by the water.
"When my husband came back from Malaysia, he said I was the one responsible, even though the girl had said that her elder step-sister inflicted the injury on her."
The fair-complexioned woman said she loved her husband and some discoveries she made forced her to embark on many days of prayer and fasting so that he could be delivered.
She was evasive when this correspondent enquired what those discoveries were. She alleged she was being persecuted because of those discoveries. Wilfred later claimed that before Titilayo left home years ago, she had alleged that her father was sexually abusing her, which made relations send her back to her mother's families.
"When my husband came back from Malaysia, I started noticing things that pointed to the fact that they were having sexual relationship. But I did not confirm until one morning when I went to my husband's room and saw both of them naked.
"I screamed because it confirmed my fear. At that time, my husband had chased me out of his room. When he came back from his trip, he said I was the one that made him lose his job in Malaysia. He said I injured his daughter's leg and maltreated his children. When he sent me packing from his room, Titilayo packed into the room. She used his towel and dressed up in his presence."
This correspondent asked why she decided to continue to stay in the house and why she did not report to family members, she said she had nowhere to go.
According to her, her husband took her to the police and asked her to choose between being prosecuted for the injury on her step-daughter's leg or divorce.
"I chose divorce even though I was carrying a three-week old baby at the time," she said.
After their divorce, the court directed Mustapha to pay N50,000 to her to resettle her, pay N10,000 monthly for the upkeep of her children and allow her to pack her belongings. The court added that the couple could approach a family court if there was controversy as to the custody of their children.
But their issues deteriorated in November last year when the police summoned Wilfred.
"The Investigation Police Officer handling the case at the Idimu Area Command summoned me that the area commander wanted to see me.
"But instead of allowing me to see the area commander, I was pushed into a waiting vehicle with a newborn in my arms. They pushed away my sister who attempted to follow us to know where they were taking us.
"They took me to a magistrate court, I was accused of injuring my step-sister and I was remanded for one month and three days for something I knew nothing about. The police had already spoken to the child and she confirmed that Titilayo was responsible.
I guess my husband must have paid handsomely to ensure they send me to jail."
The Director of the Esther Child Rights Foundation, Mrs. Esther Ogwu, who reported Wilfred's case at the ministry for action, said Wilfred's treatment amounted to abuse of the little child she was carrying.
"How could you rush a nursing mother to court and detain her for something she knew nothing about? That 10-month-old child was abused through his mother's detention. He was forcefully stopped from breast-feeding because he was not allowed to be with his mother in jail.
"The father is obviously using the police to punish his wife. She alleged that despite the customary court's judgement, the ex-husband seized her passport, phones and laptop."
On Thursday, this correspondent went in search of Mustapha. The man, who had his other children with him at the time, denied most of the allegations levied against him by his ex-wife.
Asked whether he truly sleeps with his first daughter, he said, "That is a big lie concocted by her. What evidence does she have? Let her produce her evidence."
Wilfred had told this correspondent she had no recording to back up her claim.
He was also asked if indeed Titilayo sleeps in his room but he did not deny that.
Mustapha said, "My ex-wife is fetish. When I got back from Malaysia, I was informed about her fetish activities like spraying liquids around the house. I had to ask all my children including the ones she had for me to sleep in my room.
"If she was planning to kill anyone, she should kill us all in one place."
One of Mustapha's children, Kunle, was instructed by his father to narrate what happened in his room some time ago.
"I went to the toilet in the middle of the night. That same time, my step-mother went to the toilet as well but she left the door open. She told me to go and close the door. When I turned my back, I saw her spraying something around my room. I told my father the following day," the boy said.
Mustapha also showed this correspondent the badly burnt leg of his daughter which he claimed was caused by his ex-wife.
What happened to your leg, this correspondent asked the 10-year-old girl.
"My step-mother dipped my leg inside hot water," she answered.
Titilayo also denied allegations against her. "That woman is a liar. I never accused my father of sleeping with me because that has never happened. She injured the girl," she said.
Mustapha said his ex-wife was cooking up lies against him to destroy him.
"I decided to report at the police station because I was frustrated. She claimed I was a fraudster in Malaysia before I came back home. That is a lie. I was a cab driver; a job that is very lucrative there," he said.
Earlier on Thursday, Wilfred had recounted the treatment meted out to her by policemen at Idimu to this correspondent and members of the Esther Child Rights Foundation.
The Area Commander, Mr. Ibrahim Kaoje, did not seem to have heard about the case before, even though the IPO, Cpl. Seun Adebisi, who had allegedly taken her to court, had said his superior had requested for her.
"I want every party in this case to be present in my office on Tuesday. Make sure the ex-husband is here. We will hear everybody out and know where to go then. I also need the case file," the area commander said.
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Two men die after sleeping with two married women in Agbor, Delta
The police moved swiftly, arresting both women and two others identified as their friends, suspected for being involved in the death of both men.
According to reports, both men died after alleged being deceived into having sexual intercourse with two of the suspects, after they had confessed that they had been divorced from their husbands.
But a senior police officer in Agbor who did not want his name in print disclosed that upon interrogation, both women confessed that they were married; but were, actually, lured into having sexual intercourse in one of the hotels outside Agbobi.
Speaking to journalists, the acting police
spokesman in the state, DSP Charles Muka, said investigation into the issue was on-going, and added that the death of both men was mysterious, considering the circumstances in which they died.
According to the families of both men, they returned home last Monday, vomiting. Shortly after, they both had swollen stomachs and were rushed to a nearby hospital where they died a few
minutes after some drugs had been administered.
The suspects identified as Patient Ikeawu, 35; Elizabeth Otore, 32; Ngozi Ikoh, 34, and Mabel Ifeh, 34, are presently helping officers of the
Agbor Police Division in their investigations.
Talkloaded.COM checks revealed that it has become common for married women in the community to deceive men into sleeping with them. Elders of the communities have described the situation as a taboo, saying that those who get involved in such acts will die, while the women, in no distant time,
will go mad.
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27-yr-old Teacher Heartlessly Raped 6 & 7 Year Old Pupil In Lagos
Ibrahim, who resides at No. 2, Olaosebikan St., Lawanson in Surulere, Lagos, is facing a charge of defiling two minors.
The Prosecutor, Insp R. Odigie, said that the crime was committed on Dec. 18 at about 11.00 a.m. at Al-adab Nursery and Primary School, Abalti Barracks, Surulere, Lagos.
He said that the accused took the two pupils to the school toilet and forcefully had unlawful carnal knowledge of them.
"The victims screamed for help and they were rescued by another teacher in the school.
"The eyewitness reported the accused to the headmaster," he said.
The prosecutor said that the offence contravened Section 137 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2011.
The accused, however, pleaded not guilty to the charge.
Section 137 provides that any person, who has unlawful s*xual intercourse with a child is guilty of a felony and liable to life imprisonment.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the Chief Magistrate, Mrs A.A. Demi-Ajayi, granted the accused bail in the sum of N1 million with two sureties in like sum. She adjourned the case to Jan. 29, 2014. (NAN)
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Friday, 3 January 2014
[Unbelievable] Man Gives Birth To Baby Girl – His Wife Is The Father
Last Wednesday, December 18, the first baby to be born to transgender parents in Argentina was delivered via C-section in the province of Entre RÃos. The proud parents are 26-year-old Alexis Taborda and 28-year-old Karen Bruselario. Alexis was born a woman, but lives as a man and Karen was born a man, but lives as a woman. Because of Argentina’s Gender Identity Law passed in May of 2012, the couple have both been able to legally change their genders without gender reassignment surgery, which meant that when they got pregnant via natural means, it was the man, Alexis, who carried the baby. So what about the baby?
Well, the baby was due on December 22 via scheduled C-section, but couldn’t wait. Alexis started having contractions the weekend before the scheduled birth, and the baby was born “early” weighing 9.37 pounds (that’s a big baby) at Hospital FermÃn Salaberry in Victoriain. The couple named their baby girl Génesis Evangelina.
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Congrats:- Annie And 2face Idibia Welcome New Baby
She gave birth in the past hour in an Atlanta hospital. Trying to find out the s*x of the baby, but in the meantime, mother and child are said to be doing great.
The couple got married in March 2013, and already have 41/2 year old daughter, Isabella.
Big congrats to them.
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How To Talk To A Girl You Like For The First Time
1. Make eye contact. Spend a few days catching her gaze every now and then.
Don’t just stare at her, though; instead, shoot her small glances until your eyes meet and she catches you. When she does, smile slightly and look away after a second. You’ll probably blush as well, which is all the better – blushing indicates you’re nervous, which is a hint that you like her.
2. Time it right. When you do talk to her, pick a time that’s convenient.
Don’t try to get her attention when she’s obviously involved in something else, and try to have a bit of privacy – you don’t have to be completely alone, but her attention shouldn’t be too distracted.
Make the interaction extra casual (and put a time limit on it) by talking to her while you’re both walking somewhere else. If you walk to a class at the same time as her, or you start walking the same way home, this is a great opening.
3. Start with a compliment.
Paying a girl the right compliment makes your intentions clear right away – she’ll know instantly that you’re interested in being more than her friend. Here are some things to consider:
Know how to deliver a compliment. Even the best compliment in the world will fall flat if your delivery is off. Keep a half smile as you talk – it will make you naturally add appealing inflection to your voice. (Try this trick out when you answer the phone sometime and see if you notice a difference.) Maintain eye contact with her, and keep the tones of your voice up, but lower the actual volume – speaking softly immediately communicates intimacy, and it can make her instinctively lean in closer to hear you. If this all sounds a bit difficult, practice it in front of a mirror first.
As anyone who’s ever had a stalker can tell you, there’s a fine but definite line between flattering and creepy. With this in mind, choose your compliment wisely. Saying something like “You always look amazing in that shirt” can come off as weird if you don’t know her well, and implies that you watch her. (Even if you do, it’s best not to spill that information immediately.) Instead, opt for something general but cute, such as “Your smile is glowing today. What’s making you so happy?” or “I thought what you said in class earlier was really interesting.” A good compliment should naturally lead to more conversation, instead of just hanging awkwardly in the air after you say it.
Know what to avoid. If you’re going to pay a girl a compliment about her physical looks, stick to her eyes, smile or hair. Do not comment on her body otherwise, especially on the first interaction.
If you want to play it extra safe, pick something you already know she’s proud of. For instance, if you know she’s a dedicated violinist, say something like, “I’ve heard you’re an amazing musician,” and use it as a way to ask her some questions about it.
4. Keep the conversation moving.
You might be tempted to stop talking and just stare at this girl, but don’t let your nerves get the best of you. Allowing a long lull in the conversation will make things feel awkward.
5. Instead, have a mental list of backup questions you can use if you stumble on an uncomfortable pause.
Ask about what she thinks of a shared homework assignment or an upcoming event. Asking for her opinion communicates that you care about what she thinks, and see her as more than just an object.
Use the conversation to find out more about her, but be subtle. For instance, if you want to find out if she already has a boyfriend, you could casually ask, “So, anything fun planned with your boyfriend for the weekend?” If she doesn’t have one and she’s interested in you, she’ll let you know immediately.
Ask open-ended questions. For instance, instead of saying “So, have anything fun planned for the break?” (which can be answered with a short “yes” or “no”), say “What are you going to do to keep busy while school is out?” A question that requires a detailed response is always better to keep a conversation flowing.
6. Make her laugh (optional).
If you’re sure you’ve got a joke she’ll appreciate, give it a shot. The goal is to show her you have an engaging sense of humor, but you don’t want to come off as desperate or cheesy.
If possible, crack a joke about the current situation or something you both saw happen. Situational humor is more meaningful than a joke you read online.
Don’t tell a dirty joke. It’s not appropriate for a first conversation, and it might give her the wrong impression.
If she doesn’t get the joke, don’t explain it to her unless she asks. Just move on quickly with a new point of conversation.
Good humor is really attractive, but bad humor is a complete turn off. If you can’t think of a joke that makes sense with the situation at hand, leave it alone.
7. Close the conversation early.
Follow that old saying – “Always leave them wanting more.” Find a way to gracefully duck out of the conversation before it goes stale. Good luck!
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11 Reasons You Should Quit Facebook In 2014 [A Must Read]
We’ve noticed a nationwide annoyance with Facebook over 2013. The company even admitted in October that younger teens were using the network less frequently on a daily basis. Here are 11 reasons that might convince you to let your Facebook account go in 2014.
1. Nobody actually wants to just read about what you’re doing anymore.
Think about it: What sounds more appealing (and believable)? Reading a status that says, “I’m currently hanging out with Will Smith!” or a picture of that person actually posing with Smith? A photo is definitely more engaging. Here’s the most-liked Instagram picture of 2013: Justin Bieber’s snap with Smith. When TIME interviewed teenagers about their social media use in March, 16-year-old Hamp Briley explained that kids these days don’t have time for Facebook: “Twitter’s all statuses, Instagram’s all pictures. People like to do more specific things like that instead of being on just Facebook.”
2. Facebook makes it impossible for you to stay “private.”
For many valid reasons (think stalker exes or potential employers), some people don’t like having their name come up when it’s typed into the Facebook search bar. However, most users this year found problems with changes to privacy settings. For one, Facebook removed the option to keep your name hidden when people search you. They also forced people to control their privacy settings on a cumbersome item-by-item basis. Today, the only way to make sure certain people can’t access your profile is to block them. Or alter your name so it doesn’t appear when people search your real one. Or, of course, quit Facebook entirely.
3. Your parents (and even grandparents) are now watching your every move.
This year seemed to be the year everyone’s mom, dad, grandmother and great aunt got hooked on Facebook. And that meant every time you posted a status about something innocuous, these Facebook novices started breathing down your neck the minute you hit “post.” We get enough scolding from our parents “IRL” — no need to let it trickle onto a social media site where our friends can laugh at our familial bickering.
4. Or they’re posting photos of you that you would never want anyone to see
What’s worse than getting no “likes” on an Instagram photo you posted? Checking your Facebook and realizing that a horribly embarrassing photo of you that your mom posted is getting over 50 “likes,” along with some pretty serious mockery in the comments section.
5. Facebook is even keeping track of what you don’t say.
You may have been happy you didn’t post that one over-share about your extended trip to the bathroom the other day, but Facebook may have a record of exactly what you typed and what time you were about to publish it. This month, Facebook released a study revealing that they were undergoing a new type of data collection in which they were tracking when people typed content out and then removed it without publishing. Their mission is to understand why users “self-censor” themselves in updates. According to Facebook data scientist Sauvik Das, a “self-censored update” is “an entry into either [a status update or comment box] of more than five characters that was typed out but not submitted for at least the next 10 minutes.”
6. Facebook makes you feel less positive about your life.
Even though the purpose of Facebook is effectively to reveal details about everything and anything you do, access to this knowledge could take a toll on your mental well-being. A recent study done by the Department of Behavioral Science at the Utah Valley University discovered that heavy Facebook users aren’t the happiest people out there. The researchers found that just using Facebook makes you view your life more negatively. Of 400 students questioned, “those who have used Facebook longer agreed more that others were happier, and agreed less that life is fair, and those spending more time on Facebook each week agreed more that others were happier and had better lives.”
7. The “friend suggestions” tell you to befriend people you don’t even know.
Facebook’s “friend suggestions” algorithm needs some work, because these days we’re discovering that your potential “friends” are people we only know through someone else, or someone we haven’t even met at all. If you want people to stop using a platform that is supposed to connect them and bring them together with the people they care about, you should definitely adopt Facebook’s strategy of trying to get you to care about the lives of complete strangers.
8. You realize you only know and care about only 20 people out of your 1,000 friends.
It starts to get kind of weird when you check the birthdays for the day and don’t remember who any of the five people are. How do you know them? Are they some random person you met at a bar in college one night, and in a drunken stupor decided to “add on Facebook”? Probably. Do you need to know that this person is moving to California this week? More importantly, do you care? Nope. It could be time to overhaul your friends list. Or maybe it’s time to realize that your Facebook account is being used pretty much entirely to keep tabs on these kinds of strangers.
9. Your friends keep announcing their engagements.
There’s nothing more obnoxious than being a busy twentysomething and starting to see all of your friends post statuses about getting engaged. While you are happy for them and wish them the best in their prospects for a lasting marriage, the bombardment of status updates is starting to make you feel like something is wrong with your love life. Why aren’t you getting married? What is wrong with you? Why the hell do you need to be thinking about marriage right now?! Once that anxiety subsides, you realize you have to endure continued updates on their wedding preparation. You could unsubscribe to this friend, but you know more are coming.
10. The excessive ads are about to ruin the whole experience.
If the regular sponsored ads hadn’t already destroyed Facebook for you — seriously, why the hell do you think you’re obsessed with guitars and horses — the upcoming launch of video ads will definitely do the trick. Facebook started testing these annoying ads out in December. They’ll soon be coming to a newsfeed near you, automatically playing a video as you scroll through. However, the sound will only play if you click or tap on it. The good news? There is a way to block these ads from automatically playing. You just have to use a Flash blocker.
11. It makes getting over a breakup really hard.
Back in the days before social media, people broke up and never called the person again. It was relatively simple to move on (providing you weren’t forced to physically see the person on a day-to-day basis). But today, being able to have constant access to your ex’s timeline can easily cause serious obsessive tendencies and behavior. Samuel Axon at Mashable accurately summed up how Facebook makes breakups harder, because the platform makes your change in relationship status public and it allows you to see all the action your ex is getting.
Help!!! My Wife Only Makes Love To Me In The Dark
Am a 27 year old man but my wife is just 2 years older than me, we wedded in the middle of last year, my people please help me out on this, is this normal or just act of shyness, My love never allowed me to see the curves of her Privates and she only wants to sleep with me when their is no light of any form, as am talking to you now, i have never slept with her in the afternoon or when the bulb is on, the worst part is that am not comfortable again because i have to wait every night just have S3X with my own Wife..
Man Pours Boiled Water On Girl’s Face Over Facebook Unfriending
Just weeks before the attack the girl had un-friended him on the social networking site because he starting posting strange comments on her Facebook wall. While he held the mother and daughter captive, he boiled some water in the kitchen then proceeded to pour it over the girl’s face.
Police have now begun a manhunt for the boy, an intermediate student, who fled the scene. The victim, an Indian class eight student, was taken to a local hospital for treatment.
My Fiance’s Older Cousin I Dated Before Him, Still Wants s3x From Me
My ex wanted me to marry him because he is comfortable and can take care of me and my unborn children.
I have fallen in love with him but I am scared he might get to know in the future.
We have been having unprotected s*x since early last month and I think I am pregnant. Our wedding is in few weeks and I get more scared every day.
The worse part of it is that his older cousin has been asking me for s*x and whenever I turn him down he threatens to tell my fiance.
What can I do? I don’t want to see his older cousin again. Please help.